i figured, i been reading alot here and pretty much everywhere on the net but it seems i get donked out by miracle hands with 5 outs or less.
for instance
PokerStars No-Limit Hold'em Tourney, Big Blind is t150 (5 handed)
Hand History Converter Tool from
FlopTurnRiver.com (Format: FlopTurnRiver)
MP (t2520)
Button (t1619)
SB (t3223)
Hero (t2728)
UTG (t3410)
Preflop: Hero is BB with J

, 6

.
1 fold, MP calls t150,
1 fold, SB completes, Hero checks.
Flop: (t450) 8

, 3

, A
(3 players)
SB bets t150, Hero calls t150, MP folds.
Turn: (t750) 8
(2 players)
SB bets t150,
Hero raises to t600,
SB raises to t1050,
Hero raises to t2428, SB calls t1378.
River: (t5606) T
(2 players)
Final Pot: t5606
Results in white below:
Hero has Jh 6h (flush, ace high).
SB has 8d Tc (full house, eights full of tens).
Outcome: SB wins t5606.
i nearly threw my laptop after that one, i knew i had him beat