This is topic that's come up and I've stayed away from it.
Personally, regarding online poker- dumb.
It's obnoxious, IMO. If you had shit, it's a juvenile display of a bluff that WILL bite you in the ass. When you semi-bluff and hit, it'll scare people. But when they don't call, there's no reason. If you think it's gonna get you more action later when you want it, nuh-uh. Whether you have crap or not, people notice if you're aggressive or not and maintaining mystery is the key to aggression. Online, you have an auto-muck. It's a great excuse. "I don't wanna hold up the game."
Now showing good cards is equally obnoxious, but only pre-flop. That "I read poker books. I know what I'm doing." snobbery that comes across is the ugliest thing in a player at the table and if you think it's keeping aggressive players away- nuh-uh. I gun for these people every time I have position because the majority of these book-idiots can't play postflop. And if you're a good postflop player, you take away from that by taking mystery away. If you think that this allows you to open up- nuh-uh. You're setting yourself up to get trapped because it can easily send the message that you love 2 cards and you do, you marry them.
Live, I'll show periodically, when I
see that someone's made a really tough laydown as a social gesture. I am a pretty nice guy and I love to laugh and make others laugh. To put someone through that agony and muck rubs salt in the wound, so if you're gonna do it, be ready to go to war. If I'm willing, yeah, I'll muck.
Just a rant. i have a ton more to say, but that's my general thought. I know others think differently, but I think there's something megalomanical about overrating your importance online. In the long term, I think it only bites you in the ass. I'll tell people what I had at times and won't lie (about 95% of the time). I do it live all the time, but ONLY talking about it and doing it a lot adds to the mystery.
So many people are not gonna notice it and in the database age of poker, do you really want your opponent having more info? It's enough that you can't muck a losing hand anymore. That's ridiculous.
