I've learned to lay it down early on in tourneys facing raises and a re-raise. Twice thats happpened that I remember and several people ended up being all in pre-flop so we got to see the race. The first time I decided to lay it down there were 3 all-ins by the time it got back to me and I was the original raiser. I laid it down, cards were flip over it was a higher pocket pair like queens or jacks versus 2 other AK. Nothing came out the help the AK of course. Just the other nite I laid it down ended up being 2 people that were all in, it was AK vs mid pocket and AK lost. Home games I laid it down once and would have ended up winning the hand too after we rabbited. I just wasn't feeling it at that point.

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I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is
stalk them and hope they panic and give in...
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to others -
they are more screwed up than you think.