i figured, i been reading alot here and pretty much everywhere on the net but it seems i get donked out by miracle hands with 5 outs or less.

for instance

PokerStars No-Limit Hold'em Tourney, Big Blind is t150 (5 handed) Hand History Converter Tool from FlopTurnRiver.com (Format: FlopTurnRiver)

MP (t2520)
Button (t1619)
SB (t3223)
Hero (t2728)
UTG (t3410)

Preflop: Hero is BB with J, 6.
1 fold, MP calls t150, 1 fold, SB completes, Hero checks.

Flop: (t450) 8, 3, A (3 players)
SB bets t150, Hero calls t150, MP folds.

Turn: (t750) 8 (2 players)
SB bets t150, Hero raises to t600, SB raises to t1050, Hero raises to t2428, SB calls t1378.

River: (t5606) T (2 players)

Final Pot: t5606

Results in white below:
Hero has Jh 6h (flush, ace high).
SB has 8d Tc (full house, eights full of tens).
Outcome: SB wins t5606.

i nearly threw my laptop after that one, i knew i had him beat